Are you at that time in your life when you have a wedding every weekend? Are you tired of the same old boring receptions? If you said yes to either of the above statements, then this Wedding Wednesday is for you. Listed below are some ideas of how to keep your wedding flow while keeping guests happy!
1. Make introductions at the rehearsal.
A wedding brings together two families and sets of friends Invite relatives and out-of-town guests to the rehearsal dinner to break the ice, and introduce those who might have common interests. By the time the wedding rolls around, your guests will have met in a more relaxed atmosphere the evening before and (hopefully) keep the conversations going at the reception.
2. Stick to the schedule.
No one expects things to run exactly on time but you don't want to force your guests to idle around while you take your formal wedding pictures. This is where the cocktail hour comes in. Set up a lounge, shady courtyard or decorated room for your guests to mingle, drink, dance a little or relax. Also, make a schedule for the "important" people in the wedding. This way everyone knows what is happening and at what time.

3. Don't let guests go hungry.
Hors d'oeuvres are necessary! Even if you plan on serving a full dinner at your reception, it's a good idea to have a few snacks for your guests to nosh on while they wait for you and your new spouse to make your grand entrance. Mini hotdogs, meatballs, chicken/vegetable skewers or mozzerella sticks are all great options. Your guests will be refreshed from the ceremony and ready to party at the reception.


4. Plan an exit strategy.
If you really want guests to be able to enjoy themselves at your reception, arrange for transportation to get them home safely afterward. Some couples choose to throw their reception in a hotel banquet hall and block off rooms for their guests, while others hire a shuttle service to run throughout the night. This extra consideration gives guests the freedom to drink without worrying about getting home safely when the party wraps up.

Cute little trolly to take wedding guests home!
5. Consider your venue.
Of course, your budget will be a huge factor in determining where you throw your wedding, but picking an interesting or fun reception site can go a long way. Many science museums will let you rent out their exhibit areas, and zoos often have banquet areas with the animals in full view. Even an otherwise bland reception space can be dressed up with dramatic decor (like up-lights) or specialty entertainment (photo booths).
6. Work your seating chart.
There's nothing more uncomfortable than being the one couple at a table where you don't know anyone and everyone else went to high school together. A well-played seating chart is a cost-free way to make sure your guests spend time with people they like -- or even to set them up with someone new!

7. Put a time limit on toasts.
Yes, it's nice to hear words of encouragement and well wishes, but unless your friends are moonlighting as stand-up comedians, an overly long toast can easily go from sentimental to excruciating. Limit the number and length of toasts to a few key guests (think: maid of honor, best man, your parents), and let everyone get back to the party.
8. Bring in the...clowns?
Remember that scary clown/magician from your eighth birthday party? Today's specialty performers are nothing like that. The options for wedding entertainment span from tricked-out DJs to belly dancers to singing waiters.
9. Think beyond wedding cake.
Wedding cakes are still a staple, but consider expanding the selection for those with a sweet tooth. We're talking a full dessert bar with everything from whoopie pies, truffles, cupcakes, candies, along with local delicacies like fried Oreos or black-and-white cookies. The dessert bar can double as your wedding favor by setting out plastic bags or boxes for your guests to take a snack for the road.

10. Relax -- seriously.
Planning a wedding can be stressful, but when the day arrives, everyone will have more fun if you can overlook any little mishaps and let loose. Think about it: Do you have fun at parties where the host is incessantly on edge? To avoid ruining your good mood, assign any last-minute tasks to a bridesmaid, relative, or your wedding planner.
As always, make sure to call Breezin' Entertainment for any wedding entertainment needs
813-348-4998 or http://breezin.com/
Written by intern Stephanie
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